Who Would You Pick?

So how do you know who's really the right one for you?

Some would say it's best to be with someone who loves you more than you love them. Someone who's really financially stable and is ready for the whole marriage, kids and white picket fence scenario. Someone who lets you feel that their intentions are really serious and plans a date often just so they can spend time with you. They don't try to make any move on you, no kiss or neither holding hands until you guys are officially together. Someone who would message you so often to check up on you and continues to make an effort to reach out to you even if sometimes they don't get a reply. 

But then with this person everything is just steady. You don't get butterflies whenever they're around you. You don't smile or laugh as much when you're together. You don't find him attractive nor have an emotional connection with him. He's just okay, someone you just go out with just for the sake of trying to give it a chance when clearly you know it won't ever lead to something romantic.

Then there's this guy that you unexpectedly meet. He's stable, fun and exciting. You always look forward to the days you'll be seeing him and gets butterflies whenever you're around him. You smile often and laugh more in his company. The chemistry is just undeniable that you start to get physically and emotionally attracted after a few dates. But the catch is, he isn't ready for commitment and you don't know if he will ever be with you. He always makes you wonder what are you in his life. His actions and words don't always match and sometimes he may be hot and cold instead of consistent.

So do you just settle for the guy who is into the same page as you in terms of building a relationship eventhough clearly you know there is no romance happening or would you go for the guy who makes you genuinely happy and just take a risk and see maybe it has a potential to lead to something serious in time?

XOXO,

Singlesuzzie